Adult personals in adultfriendfinder are an excellent way of setting up a sexual encounter. In brief, the technique is put your own adult personal in adultfriendfinder, then on Saturday morning reply to a few ads, and then arrange to meet them in a free adult chat room, or even better, back at your place, or an anonymous hotel.
Here are the steps in detail:
Log onto adultfriendfinder and do a search of the adult personals for whatever sort of sexual partner you want to meet. It could be 18 year old teens, 40 year old mums, submissive sex slave, domineering mistress - whatever. With 10 million members, there is really an unlimited supply of any type of person for any taste.
You could use other adult personals sites if you like, but in my opinion, adultfriendfinder is the best because:
a) it is the biggest adult personals site by a long way
b) they have amazing search facilities. You can search on age, sex, orientation, country, state, single 1-on-1, swinging couples, gay, erotic chat, discreet relationship, bondage & discipline, cross-dressing, kinky fetishes, exhibition/voyeurism, sadism & masochism etc.
c) You can do a search now, for free on adultfriendfinder. I just did one, and got pages of names of women in my city with their ages, and close up pictures of their pussies. You can't get any better than that!
d) They have another site Friendfinder
which is more for people looking for long term relationships. You won't get
pussy close ups there. Instead, you will have to wine and dine them, meet her
parents etc. If that's what you want then go for it. But if you want instant
sex, rest assured that the people you will meet on adultfriendfinder want exactly
the same thing.
Adultfriendfinder give you some tips on this, because if you have a good profile, you can expect more people to initiate contact with you, which makes your life a bit easier.
It should be 3 to 4 sentences long, and should not contain personal contact information.
You will get more responses if you help others make a real connection with you. This is just the way it works. There are loads of pictures up there, you want to make yours stand out, by showing a bit of personality.
You could include information about family, friends, job, hobbies, or interests. You could describe what would be your ideal date. You could write about what makes you happy or sad. Tell them a bit about your personality. Tell them where you have lived and traveled. What sort of learning experiences have you had?
Once you have done this, you will get a steady stream of messages from people who like your profile, and want to meet you. However this will probably not be enough to satisfy you, so you will need to approach people you like as well.How many you choose depends on your desirablity. If you are a rich handsome stud, you may only need 2 or 3. If you are an old bald fat guy, then maybe you need 20 or 30. Don't forget, that some of them may be otherwise engaged, or they may simply not like you. When you have ten million to choose from, any sense of scarcity is soon replaced by a feeling of abundance of sexual partners.
Then send them a pleasant email saying that you really liked their profile, and you would love to get to know them better. Have a standard message in word that you can paste in, then personalize it for each ad you reply to, so that they know that you have taken the trouble to read their profile, and that you have actually chosen them, and are not just messaging everyone. Tell them something in particular you like about their profile or picture. You have to judge how crude you should be. If they have posted a picture of their pussy, you can be pretty graphic.
This is very much personal preference. Most people progress from a to b to c to d. If you have little confidence, you could go slow, and spend a lot of time at each level. If you are a old hand at this, then you can go straight to d.
a) correspond by email. This could be good if you have a few long seductive emails you can re-use, telling her about yourself, and also trying to tease and seduce her.
b) meet in a hat room. You can create your own private chat room there.
c) phone each other, - this is good if you can adopt a sexy voice. Women can get really blown away by this, and it can go a long way to compensate for the fact that you may not have dashing good looks.
d) arrange to meet up. Turn on the charm. Titillate and tease her, till she is really horny. You can work out the rest.Again this is up to you. Maybe you want to settle down and marry her, or maybe you want to keep a steady flow of new people. You can either keep 2 or 3 on the go at once, if you have the stamina, or you can just keep a few at the email/chat stages, so that if anything goes wrong, or you get fed up, you can easily start seeing them.